Erotica

I imagine sliding my hard penis into her vagina. It is soft and comfy. It goes in smoothly.


I show her my power by ramming her hard. And methodically. Back and forth.

We're in doggy style on this couch. She touches her butt with both hands, drawing me attention to it. It is smooth and firm, but not to tight. Plump, maybe. I''m not sure how to describe it in words.

"Move away your hands," I instruct.

She does as she is told. I perceive that her vagina starts to lubricate.

"Are you getting wet?", I ask.

She nods.

This is bliss. Our connection transcends our bodies. It is beautiful. I feel serene. "Wow, this is amazing,I tell her.

"Yes, I love it," she replies.

We both orgasm. And that's when we start to leave the bedroom.

I mean..neither of us rushes. In fact, it is ten years before we separate. Don't worry; we're still married. We just feel the need to have sex less. No, neither of us is sick, or disabled. She continues on her own way. She's traveled. I've become a professor. We talk frequently, and yes, we still have sex. Accept it's different now.

We are both in our 60's.

Discovery amongst dating sites

Many dating sites (and dating services) ask members to describe who they would like to meet.

This is very useful information. It tells people what the member's wishes and fears are. No wonder some people have difficulty filling out these forms. I imagine them thinking, "What? You want me to tell me all my fantasies and fears? Whoa! Back off."

See, many people have a distrust of others. To some point, this is healthy. However, when you first meet a person, you need to realize the transference. That's why it's hard to commit to someone right off the bat.

Of course complicating things are psychosexual fixations maybe as a result of trauma.

An understand of psychoanalysis will help you understand this.

B.D.S.M

Ok, I'm starting an exploration of B.D.S.M (personally and academically)

My explanation of B.D.S.M:

Best
Da**
Sexual Activities
"Made"

I notice that this poem includes some dominance in it.

I was reading a book on Topping. It said something that I found profound. Basically, it was like "B.D.S.M play involves the sharing of power." I think the terms "Dominant" and "Submissive" are inaccurate. In fact, power is shared. When the power of both partners are combined, amazing things happen.

I'm looking for a person who I can work with to reach progressively higher levels.

HI! :)

Hi everyone.

In order for this blog to be interactive, I feel I need to try make people feel comfortable. I do this by trying not to be judgmental.


So, in order for this to be interactive for people to feel comfortable, I feel I might need to tell people about myself. Reading this blog is one way to learn about me.

Here's some info about me:


I am male.

I am assertive.

I am understanding.

More stuff:
I believe sex is beautiful.

I grew up in a sexually repressed and restrictive environment.

Sex and Laws (also Sex and Society)

I would like to make the case for more sexual freedom. Specifically, about prostitution.


First, let's take an argument for the status quo. First of all, only women are prostitutes. Many prostitutes are abused. Therefore, if prostitution is allowed , the legal jurisdiction is condoning abuse against women.

I won't deny that there are social inequalities between men and women. But this is not just limited to prostitution. Of Forbes "Big Bosses and Paycheck" list in 2002, all of the top ten people in the list are men. (link) It this list was respentive of the general population, about 5 of these people would be women. So financially, women, in general make less money than men in business.

Sex work is different. For example, female pornographic actresses make more money than male pornographic actors for the same type of employment. It is much harder for a man to be a prostitute than a woman.

The abuse of prostitutes, I propose, is the result of limited support and no legal avenues for prostitutes who are abused.

I'm not saying all self-loving women should become prostitutes. Neither am I saying all self-loving men should become Chief Executive Officers. However, I feel that, as a society, we should include and support individuals regardless of their choice.

What benefit do we get by keeping prostitution illegal

Sex: More than the Birds and the Bees

In my experience, sex is hard to talk about. I grew up in an environment where sex was not talked about.

In school, sex education focused on contraception (primarily) and Sexually-Transmitted Disease control and treatment. (secondary)

We also learned about human sexual reproductive organs. However, I learned more about other structures in biology than I did about sexual reproduction in health class.

So...what can I recommend?

I felt the lack of the psychology of sexuality left me feeling confused.

And school, I found, is not really a sex-positive environment.

My frist visit to a sex shop

Ok...I hope I don't get flagged for this, but here it goes.


This week I visited my first sex shop. It went well! I worried that it would be some sort of dirty place with dirty men. The staff on the day I went were women!


I'm skeptical that celibacy is actually possible. (Although I don't think many people that are celibate view this blog...lol)